I love this saying as it evokes a clear image for me! It is the image of a runner at the starting line of a race. They
I love this saying as it evokes a clear image for me!
Picture this, a determined, focused runner poised at the starting line of a race.
She has been preparing for months to run this race. Her adrenaline is pumping, she is eager to begin, and give her very best to run the race.
In my mind, I can see that this runner is different.
She does not run for personal gain but for a higher reward.
This reward is priceless.
This reward is satisfying on such a deep level that the runner draws strength, her energy and perseverance from the mere thought of obtaining it.
What does this have to do with homeschooling?
I see the runner as a mom who has chosen to homeschool her children. (Dads do too, but I am a mom, hang in here with me dads!)
Being fed on a steady diet of old fashioned black and white movies from the 30’s and 40’s growing up, I was drawn to the messages told in a story. Each story always has a hero and a journey towards some good for himself or humanity. I find that the best books I cherish also have strong hero stories!
I work best visualizing images, making movies in my head of the life I want to lead.
It is no wonder that I was drawn to the ultimate story, the very best hero tale, when I was invited back home to the faith of my birth. This story is the one our Lord has told through His Word and through his Apostles and Saints, handed down through the ages.
This ultimate story is the center of my family’s homeschool journey. It is the energy my family drawns upon to direct each day.
It is all that matters in the end.
A little while ago I wrote a guide called, Get Ready. This handy little guide I developed as a starting point for anyone who wants to begin their family journey towards an authentic and doable Catholic homeschool. In it, I introduced the PRRR method, (a silly acronym, I know). Firstly you start with Prayer, then you go through the next steps of Read, Research, and Reflect. In addition, there are helpful suggestions and worksheets to guide you through this EASY process.
“Get Set, Go!”
Above all, what I learned after 25 years of homeschooling and consulting, is that you “Set” your life first, then layer in school. I know that seems unfamiliar and maybe even confusing at first, but think about it for a minute. The only way to find balance, to have enough time for all your roles, as wife, mom, and teacher is to SET LIFE and fit in school.
To do otherwise is a certain recipe for overwhelm.
Consider this…would you buy a car without thinking of who is going to drive it and be a passenger in it? Would you make dinner by never looking at the ingredients you are adding to the dinner, let alone open the fridge?
In other words, when you choose to homeschool, to do something extraordinary, you have the opportunity to personalize and tailor the education of each and every child in your family.
However, can you possibly teach so many different levels with so many different personalities and learning styles?
It is possible! I have personally witnessed many, many families do this. Ordinary people with an extraordinary desire to challenge the status quo of education. You have already begun, when you decided to take on the primary role of educator.
How? You are a parent.
Two powerful passages come to mind that speak volumes:
Parents have the first responsibility for the education of their children. They bear witness to this responsibility first by creating a home where tenderness, forgiveness, respect, fidelity, and disinterested service are the rule. The home is well suited for education in the virtues. (CCC 2223)
The home is the natural environment for initiating a human being into solidarity and communal responsibilities. Parents should teach children to avoid the compromising and degrading influences which threaten human societies. (CCC 2224)
Relax, over the next few weeks I will be introducing practical techniques that help you SET YOUR LIFE.
So, go ahead and spend time first in getting to know what is in your fridge BEFORE you make dinner….spend time this week getting to really know your kids interests and talents.
Comment below what you “found in your fridge”…